sedona wrote:

i don't have any D:

>_<

You will.

>_<'

Not sure if I had any weird things...

I've had weeeiiiird shizzle going on some months before I got into my current relationship, but yeah, it's a bit too awkward to tell I think :p
Not really shocking, just "dude... you shouldn't do stuff like that"-type of material

Matt wrote:

Not sure if I had any weird things...

I've had weeeiiiird shizzle going on some months before I got into my current relationship, but yeah, it's a bit too awkward to tell I think :p
Not really shocking, just "dude... you shouldn't do stuff like that"-type of material

yea.. people get mad when I tell them I had three girlfriends at the same time once.

dayum boy :p

Kamerad Ash wrote:

Matt wrote:

Not sure if I had any weird things...

I've had weeeiiiird shizzle going on some months before I got into my current relationship, but yeah, it's a bit too awkward to tell I think :p
Not really shocking, just "dude... you shouldn't do stuff like that"-type of material

yea.. people get mad when I tell them I had three girlfriends at the same time once.

I've only juggled two at one time.

Worse than that, from my experience, I think the degree of anger is even greater when you get involved with someone who's married to someone else. That tends to piss entire families off.

^I don't see the big deal about having 3 different girls you take out, that isn't really "cheating." As long as there's no type of sexual contact I guess it's all a matter of exploring what there is and basically just dating. I'm sure that these girls wouldn't approve of not having them date you exclusively Ash, but there really is nothing sinful according to Scripture about simply DATING more than 1 girl, again, just as long as there are no marriage committments or sexual acts going on.

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^I don't see the big deal about having 3 different girls you take out, that isn't really "cheating." As long as there's no type of sexual contact I

But there was sexual contact.

I've never really had a girlfriend where we had no sexual contact. Another thing that makes people unhappy.. with the whole "wait till you get married" principle.

I'm not like that now-a-days.. and the whole things as actually unintentional. I'm really a one women sort of fellow too and alwasu have been.

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^well, at least you're past that stuff, forgiven forgotten

Yeah, I've messed up that wait until you get married thing.

It's too hard. Literally.

Hguols wrote:

Yeah, I've messed up that wait until you get married thing.

It's too hard. Literally.

too much info!

Jim wrote:

Hguols wrote:

Yeah, I've messed up that wait until you get married thing.

It's too hard. Literally.

too much info!

Nah. This is too much info.

Jim, I have a boner.

hahahahaha xD

Hgouls is jsut one big boner.

Hguols wrote:

Yeah, I've messed up that wait until you get married thing.

It's too hard. Literally.

Looking back, I have no idea how I held out. Haha. Oh yeah, because I was a weird greasy dude that girls probably were afraid of... okay, that made it easier.

I couldn't... resist.

Damn.

Eh the main messed up crazy person I dated was mysterious ill whenever I wanted to go out or whilst we were out somewhere with people who my friends, neglected to tell me about going off meds for schizophrenia.. that was lovely ... kept all my things literally... my laptop, prescription glasses, clothes, shoes etc.....she(yes she)took some sleeping tablets and a bottle jim beam after breaking up saying I should do the same... but then shouting obscenities at me for trying to make things amicable..... then demanding money for the times I stayed over and for gifts given... even though I shelled out heaps of money.. payed for many meals, gifts, weekends away.... also gave money as extra shutting up cash, did not want to hear from them EVER again.. although they messaged on and off, same with all the friends they had.... wouldn't leave me alone(her friends liked me still).. they have stopped, Thank the Lord.... big religious ranting messages totally turn people off.

Solution.. I moved interstate and cut off all ties to everyone associated with them also.

see boys and girls this is why you do things the smart way, Gods way. We are dumb idiot heads and meet too many **** heads without Him.


One guy I dated.... used to decide to greet me in his boxers each time I was coming over..... cos he had " just been sleeping"... yer ok... it was like he was hoping we would both forget we were Christians and working for a Christian organisation and just go for it... Sadly pudgy guys in boxers don't turn me on... oh and tassie devil boxer shorts just make it sadder. We dated for around 3 months... I think it was too long.

ELAN wrote:

Hguols wrote:

Yeah, I've messed up that wait until you get married thing.

It's too hard. Literally.

Looking back, I have no idea how I held out. Haha. Oh yeah, because I was a weird greasy dude that girls probably were afraid of... okay, that made it easier.

But that helped you get your girlie now...So...I dont see a downside to that.

therockismighty wrote:

Eh the main messed up crazy person I dated was mysterious ill whenever I wanted to go out or whilst we were out somewhere with people who my friends, neglected to tell me about going off meds for schizophrenia.. that was lovely ... kept all my things literally... my laptop, prescription glasses, clothes, shoes etc.....she(yes she)took some sleeping tablets and a bottle jim beam after breaking up saying I should do the same... but then shouting obscenities at me for trying to make things amicable..... then demanding money for the times I stayed over and for gifts given... even though I shelled out heaps of money.. payed for many meals, gifts, weekends away.... also gave money as extra shutting up cash, did not want to hear from them EVER again.. although they messaged on and off, same with all the friends they had.... wouldn't leave me alone(her friends liked me still).. they have stopped, Thank the Lord.... big religious ranting messages totally turn people off.

Solution.. I moved interstate and cut off all ties to everyone associated with them also.

see boys and girls this is why you do things the smart way, Gods way. We are dumb idiot heads and meet too many **** heads without Him.


One guy I dated.... used to decide to greet me in his boxers each time I was coming over..... cos he had " just been sleeping"... yer ok... it was like he was hoping we would both forget we were Christians and working for a Christian organisation and just go for it... Sadly pudgy guys in boxers don't turn me on... oh and tassie devil boxer shorts just make it sadder. We dated for around 3 months... I think it was too long.

lolzers.. any pictures of these people?

I found one of my old girlfriends on myspace recently..Alison, who I used to live with... she is married now and in a different state and is I guess a Christian now and all domesticated..I was like .. Aww! Cause when I knew here she was a player and had just quit being a stripper.. but unfortunately for me I was totally in love with her. That did not end well.

She's got the red hair now and short-




And then my last girlfriend, Laura.. who was great.. except she was a violent alcoholic and wouldn't stop drinking..

She is the one who dropped a blue berry pie on my head.


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And my most recent girlfirend , Gina, was super cool.. but she broke up with me over this imaginary notiont that I had another girlfirend. She was actually famous for a little bit .. as the girlfirend of Don Henrie the Vampire .. who has been on tv alot.

I kept trying to get her to grow her hair out and lose the goth look.. haha.



Her on the mtv reality show Mad Mad world.. some years ago-
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Every protestant I have ever dated has pretty much sucked.

Hey Ash...I like Laura.
<3333333333333

You can have her once she gets out of the army.

COOL!
Wait...Il take her nao!
She has access to weapons.

..and I think that is slightly scary!

I don't keep photos or look at photos of exes... they stay ex... after all, there is a reason why they don't have a part in my life no more

heres a photo of my current likiing... with his sister... who is also my good friend:

Women are always like that. WHen they break up with you they always have to destroy every pic of you and memory. I don't understand that. It's all part of the journey of life to me.

Every girlfriend I've ever had, I still cherish.. except maybe one.. but even then.. keeping picutres is good for looking back on the good and bad.


But yea.. chicks all do that. Throw away every picture. . ( of course, there is exceptions ).

Even your supposed " soul mate" is only known or part of your life.. not all of it. Even that is temporary if you have one. Do you tihk even if you see them in heaven that you will be the same or they will be the same ? Of course not.

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