You are misunderstanding me.
I know what you already stated. That's why I don't really care (hence, why I said "relieved") what you do in or with this long distance relationship. Like I said, everything is limited in such a circumstance. That obviously includes how needy/draining a person can be, so I got that.

And did I assume? I did not say 'this is a pattern.' I said "I do hope this is not a pattern." I'm concerned about how a similar girl would play out for you outside of a long distance relationship. My apologies for throwing that out there, as it may have been an unnecessary concern.

FireProphet wrote:

You are misunderstanding me.
I know what you already stated. That's why I don't really care (hence, why I said "relieved") what you do in or with this long distance relationship. Like I said, everything is limited in such a circumstance. That obviously includes how needy/draining a person can be, so I got that.

Sorry for misunderstanding and becoming angry with you. I am not feeling the best right now, sorry.

keep praying and looking after yourself, you are responsible for you. If she doesn't want to talk to you or reach out, that is her choice. Keep living your life and not get bogged down by others issues... im sure you already have your own.

Pray for her, but don't bend over backwards and waste emotional energy that isn't really helping.

therockismighty wrote:

keep praying and looking after yourself, you are responsible for you. If she doesn't want to talk to you or reach out, that is her choice.

True, and I will wait for her to talk with me again... After a while though, I will try and get a hold of her if I don't hear from her for too long a period. I at least want to know what is going on, at some point anyways.

therockismighty wrote:

Keep living your life and not get bogged down by others issues... im sure you already have your own.

Pray for her, but don't bend over backwards and waste emotional energy that isn't really helping.

Thanks... I will definitely keep praying. You're right, I shouldn't waist my "emotional energy"... it's hard not to worry a lot though, I must say. I will try though, because you're right that it won't really help anything right now.

I sent her an email last night and a text message telling her to read it. She did after nearly two weeks of not hearing from her once, and she also replied to it.

She said that she cannot handle having a boyfriend right now and that she needs a friend right now. Also, she said she sees what she has been going through has been hurting me. She said seeing that has been killing her and she does not want that to happen anymore. I've replied to her email and said that if she can't handle having a boyfriend right now then it's best that we are not together anymore. She is more important to me than this relationship and if she can't handle our relationship right now then it's better if it ceases. I hope we will still be friends and talk though... and hopefully one day if she can handle it we can continue our relationship.

She has given up praying and talking to God about what she is going through... She said she isn't getting any answers. Please pray for her because it doesn't seem like she will anymore. It's going to take so long before things get better for her.

I don't feel anything right now... just numb.

sad to hear man, just be there for her when she needs you, and keep praying.

praying mate, these things can help us grow and mature and wait for God's hand in things in the future. bless ya

Kan-o-sushi wrote:

I sent her an email last night and a text message telling her to read it. She did after nearly two weeks of not hearing from her once, and she also replied to it.

She said that she cannot handle having a boyfriend right now and that she needs a friend right now. Also, she said she sees what she has been going through has been hurting me. She said seeing that has been killing her and she does not want that to happen anymore. I've replied to her email and said that if she can't handle having a boyfriend right now then it's best that we are not together anymore. She is more important to me than this relationship and if she can't handle our relationship right now then it's better if it ceases. I hope we will still be friends and talk though... and hopefully one day if she can handle it we can continue our relationship.

She has given up praying and talking to God about what she is going through... She said she isn't getting any answers. Please pray for her because it doesn't seem like she will anymore. It's going to take so long before things get better for her.

I don't feel anything right now... just numb.

that must be very, very difficult for you and her i will continue praying, as well.

I will keep you in my prayers, Davis, and please read what I wrote on your facebook.

Thank you guys, your prayers and support mean a lot to me

We both want to remain friends and keep talking, which I am really happy about we just can't be in the same kind of relationship we had before right now.

im still praying for you both.

no matter how roughs things can be, you're never alone. Jesus is always with you.